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today's troubled economy, many suffering businesses and corporations
are instituting cutbacks and layoffs. But Alison Novie's business is doing
just fine. Allen Elkin has even noticed an increase in his. So has Harvey
Kushner.
All three are in the same business: making
people feel better. Novie is a yoga instructor; Elkin is a clinical psychologist
and founder of the Stress Management and Counseling Center in Manhattan;
and Kushner manages a successful Manhattan store, Safer America, which
sells gasmasks and protective suits in case of another terrorist attack.
All three are busy relieving the stress of New Yorkers always a
lucrative venture, but even more so now.
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Aude Lagorce
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jogger enjoys the stress-free peace of Riverside Park. |
Not only must New Yorkers contend with
the city's noise, crowds and subway delays, but the city suffered a terrorism
attack on Sept. 11, 2001 and remains under threats of more. It's a fact
that urban areas have their own special stress and New York may
be the stress capital of thecountry.
"A lot of [stress] comes out of hassle," Elkin said. "In
the city there's an infinite number of hassles everything from city
noise, to crowding, to rudeness, to just the pace of life. If you don't
watch it, they'll get to you, and you'll feel overwhelmed by them. And
a lot of people are."
Some people spend a weekend relaxing in
the country or a day getting pampered at a Midtown spa. But because these
quick fixes won't reduce stress permanently, Elkin warned, people must
develop long-term strategies.
"Rather than looking at it as a single magic bullet, you want to
put together a package of skills to fight stress," he said. "You
have to change your thinking and integrate it into your life."
Gaining perspective on stressors will alleviate their effect, Elkin said.
Rating daily anxiety on a 10-point scale can help. For example, he recalled
feeling tense while standing in a crowded subway car one morning. He rated
the situation a four at first. But after recognizing that a terminal illness
or divorce earns a 10, the train doesn't seem so bad.
"I realized I was reacting as a 4 to a 1 situation," he said.
"We tend to blow things up when we're just dealing with little hassles,
like waiting in line, dealing with traffic, not getting a reservation
in a restaurant."
A sense of humor is also essential. "If
you don't laugh in the city,you're a dead duck," he said. "There's
so much going on, you can't be offended by every little jostle, every
little push."
Elkin also recommends relieving stress physically through exercising.
A healthy lifestyle will help fend off the effects of tension.
ovie, who
teaches vinyasa yoga to classes in studios and to private clients,
emphasized the importance of the mind-body connection.
"Emotional stress starts to filter into the body and the body becomes
tight or inflexible and the mind starts to mimic that feeling," she
explained. "And you start having aches and pains. And the tower begins
to crumble."
Caring for the body, however, can ward off the effects of everyday life
and make it less susceptible to tension.
"As long as your body remains agile, you feel carefree like a child,"
she said. Vinyasa yoga, which means "making breath with movement,"
uses flowing sequences to relax the mind and body.
"It's a more intelligent form of exercise," Novie said. "It's
more thoughtful. You're thinking about your organs and breathing after
years of being out of balance."
The environment of the city contributes to being out of balance, said
Novie, from the hectic lifestyle to "honking horns." Yoga is
becoming more popular among young professionals, even among men who were
previously resistant.
"It's the most complete mind-body workout of all exercise because
it's a system and it's a philosophy, and people leave feel mentally better,"
Novie said. "I think they get addicted to it like candy."
o counteract
the anxiety of the terror alerts, some people have begun stocking
up on protective gear. Ever since the opening of Safer America, a Manhattan
store that sells safeguards against biological, nuclear and chemical attacks,
its business has been flourishing. [See Buying Peace of Mind, right] Customers
come in looking to save their lives if another attack ever comes
and save their minds from fearing
it.
Watching television, striking a yoga pose or buying a gas mask
whatever works, as long as it's a permanent change in lifestyle, said
Elkin.
"People are more anxious these days," he said. "You have
to relax body and mind. You have to change the way you think."
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