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The
New York Police Department has just come out with some statistics
showing that crime rates have fallen in the city. Felonies have
dropped 16.6 percent and rapes have decreased 50 percent, but the
numbers don’t show whether self-defense contributed to the declines.
However, in the heart of Harlem some women are being pro-active
when it comes to their safety. They are learning karate skills
so they will know how to defend themselves when in danger.
"I’m what you can call a survivor,"
says Marilyn Spinner, 46, as she finishes her class at Harlem Karate,
located at 2234 3rd Avenue. Spinner, who’s been taking karate classes
for two and a half years, was a victim of domestic violence in the
past. Her eyes gaze around the room as she says quietly, "I
don’t like to be pushed around and I’ll never allow that to happen
again."

Today
she is a woman who’s no longer afraid to be harassed or abused because
she’s stronger now. Not that she has already used any of her skills
outside the class. "I don’t have to. It’s more like when you
learn it you don’t have to use it because you know what you can
do," she says.
Along with Spinner, her daughter
Nikeya Knox, 12, is also at the karate class. In fact, Spinner had
her children learn it first, then decided to join Harlem Karate
herself. Now they come to class together. Spinner says it is important
that her kids know how to defend themselves. As for her, she regrets
that she didn’t start her classes earlier. She also regrets that
her example is not followed by some women she knows. "Not enough
women come. I wish more did," she says.
Spinner
takes classes three to four times a week. She is happy that classes
are co-ed, this way she gets to fight men and women. She likes
her professor, Ernest Hyman, who’s constantly reminding students
that all they learn at the class will help them on the streets.
"The professor hits hard but I can take his punches now and
I give him some too," she says, laughing.
Spinner’s daughter sits beside her
in class but they never fight each other. "I don’t want to
fight her," Nikeya whispers. "I fight mainly the guys
here," Spinner says. She looks around and points out one of
the men in class. "That guy punches really hard," she
says.
"I
feel much safer now," says Spinner. "If I see a bunch
of guys now I have no problem. Before I used to cross to the other
side of the street and was afraid if they’d say something. Now they
can say anything they want, I’ll just look at them and they won’t
bother me," she says.
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| Spinner
shows a block move she learned in karate. |
Firearms were never an option for
Spinner as a way of self-defense. "With a gun you can kill
somebody and I don’t want to go to jail," she says. With her
karate skills she feels safe enough. "I don’t like weapons.
This is my weapon," she says, pointing to her own body.
Spinner
is planning to see the movie "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon."
In the movie, the female leads have the better fights in the story.
"I like to see girls fighting. I like to see us taking care
of ourselves," she says.
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